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Muri buri mubano wose, kumvikana n’ingenzi. Hatabayeho kumvikana, mu by’ukuri ntabwo uba ufite umubano mwiza. Rema igihe cyo kuganira hagati ubwanyu. Nimuganira, mujye mwifungura muganire byose. Muge muganira buri munsi. Muvuge ku munsi, ese umunsi  wagenze ute?, icyo wakoze ku kazi? Icyo wariye saa sita? Mukomeze ikiganiro muri ubwo buryo. Ubwo ni bwo buryo ushobora gukuza urukundo rwawe, mu biganiro byoroheje ushobora kurema umunsi ku munsi.

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Ray Aug 30 '18
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IBINTI ABAHUNGU BAKUNDA KUREBA CYANE KU BAKOBWA

·         Uburyo witwara biri mu bintu bya mbere umusore akunda kurebaho. Uburyo uhagararamo nabyo abasore barabikunda cyane. Abasore bakunda abakobwa bazi uko bitwara kandi bakoresha imvugo yabo y’umubiri bifunguye.

·         Inseko kenshi nayo isobanura umuntu mwiza kandi ufite ubushuti, ibyishimo no kwizera ko hazaba ibintu byinza. Umukobwa umwenyura neza niwe ukunda gufata amaso y’abasore cyane kuruta abakobwa badakunda kumwenyura. Ese wigeze wumva imvugo ivuga ngo igiciro cyo kumwenyura (inseko) gifite agaciro ka milioni z’amadorari? Ni uko kumwenyura bikora byinshi.

·         Ibi bishobora kuba ishingiro ryiza ahari kubera ko ari ukuri ariko niby’ingenzi. Ushobora gutekereza ko abasore batita kwisuku ndetse n’ibintu, ariko babyitaho ndetse cyane. Kugira umwanda bizaguhindura umukobwa mubi udashobora no kwiyitaho ubwe cyangwa tubihinnye mu ijambo rimwe, umunyamwanda.

·         Iki ni kimwe mu bintu bigaragara. Kwambara neza bizakugira umusirimu ndetse utunganye (utajagaraye). Ndetse kwambara imyenda ikubereye (igukwiriye neza) ntibikubangamira kandi biguha icyizere (gushira amanga) ushobora gukenera mu gihe uri kuganira n’umusore.

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Ray Aug 22 '18
Ray

How to keep your partner happy?


How to keep your girlfriend happy?

·         Make her special. One way of keeping your special happy is actually making her feel special. Treat her like a princess. Pull out chairs for her, give her presents, and tell her how much you love. Make her feel like she’s the most special person in the world.

·         Respect her. Always remember that your girlfriend too has a life of her own, she too has her own private space which you should respect. Respecting her and her values will increase her respect for you. Be a cheering person.

·         Take a stand for her. In the times of need, be at her side. Defend her. Girls like boys who can take the stand for their partners. Just imagine for a second, how would it make you feel if your girlfriend took her friend’s or your friend’s side over yours. So always be her side.

·         Give her time. You can buy her a lot of present, a lot of gifts to make her happy but these are just momentarily and besides, she needs you, not your gifts. She needs your time. Give her your time. Make her your priority. Because that the least you can do to keep her happy.


How to keep your boyfriend happy?

·         Give him his space. Even if you and your boyfriend want to spend all your time with each other, he’s still going to need his personal space just as you. Personal space is as important in a relationship as respect or love. You should not neglect him for spending time with his friends or anything else.

·         Respect him. Respect him for his thoughts, his values and his way of life. You should respect him as a person. Respect the things he does for you. It doesn’t count money; it counts your feelings and emotions.

·         Be honest. Keep in mind that good relationships are based on trust and trust comes with honesty. Sometimes truth is cold and bitter and we all know that but it establishes trust. It will let him know that he can trust you and as I said earlier good relationships are based on trust. Don’t forget most of the healthy relationships are sabotaged by lack of trust.

·         Cook his favorite meal. This may not seem like a big thing but guys really dig it when their girlfriends make their favorite dish and try to get into what they like. For example, if he likes sports you can try to watch sports with him or try some of the things he likes.

Ray Aug 20 '18
Ray

 

UKO WATUMA UMUKUNZI WAWE YISHIMA?


UKO WATUMA UMUKOBWA MUKUNDANA YISHIMA?

·         Mugire umuntu udasanzwe. Inzira imwe yatuma anezerwa mu buryo bidasanzwe nugutuma yumva ari umuntu udasanzwe. Mufate nk’igikomangoma. Muterere intebe igihe ari ngombwa, muhe impano, ndetse umubwire uburyo umukunda bihebuje. Tuma yumva ari umuntu udasanzwe muri iyi si.

·         Mwubahe. Igihe cyose ujye wibuka ko umukobwa mukunda nawe ubwe afite ubuzima bwe abayemo, nawe afite umwanya we bwite ugomba kubaha. Kumwubaha no kubaha indangagaciro ze bizatuma nawe akubaha cyane. Ba umuntu usabana.

·         Mube hafi, mu gihe agukeneye, jya umuba iruhande. Umushigikire. Abakobwa bakunda abasore bashobora kuba hafi abakunzi babo. Tekereza isegonda rimwe, uko byakugira umukobwa mukundana aramutse aha umwanyawe inshuti ze cyangwa izawe kukurusha. Igie cyose jya uba hafi ye.

·         Muhe igihe cye. Ushobora kumugurira impano nyishi, kugira ngo utume yishima ariko ibyo ni urwibutso ahubwo ikigeretse kuri ibyo nawe aragukeneye ntabwo akeneye imapno zawe gusa. Akeneye igihe cyawe. Muhe igihe cyawe mugire ikintu cyambere cy’ibanze. Kubera ko ari cyo wakora ngo umushimishe.

UKO WATUMA UMUSORE MUKUNDANA YISHIMA?

·         Muhe umwanya we. Nubwo wowe n’umusore mukundana mushaka kumarana igihe cyose muri kumwe, azakomeza gushaka umwanya we bwite nk’uko nawe uwushaka. Umwanya bwite ni ingenzi mu mubano nk’icyumabahiro cyangwa urukundo. Ntugomba kumunenganyiriza ko yamaranye igihe n’inshuti ze cyangwa ikindi kintu cyose.

·         Mwubahe. Mwubahire ibitekerezo bye, indangagaciro ze ndetse n’ubuzima bwe. Ugomba kumwubaha nk’umuntu. Ubaha ibintu agukorera. Ntibisaba amafaranga; ahubwo bisaba ibyiyumviro n’amaranagamutima.

·         Ba inyangamugayo. Menya neza ko umubano mwiza ushingiye ku cyizere kandi icyizere kizana n’ubunyangamugayo. Rimwe na rimwe ukuri kurakonjesha kandi kurasharira ndetse twese turabizi ariko kubaka icyizere. Bizatuma amenya ko agomba kukubaha ndetse nk’uko nabivuze hejuru umubano mwiza ushingiye ku cyizere. Ntukibagirwe ko umubano wuzuye wangizwa no kubura icyizere.

·         Teka ibyo akunda. Ibi ntibisa nk’ikintu kinini cyane ariko abasore birababaza igihe abakobwa bakundana bitekeye ibyo bakunda bakagerageza kubibakudisha. Urugero, niba umusore akunda imikino ushobora kurebana na we iyo mikino cyangwa se ushobora no kugerageza ibindi bintu akunda.

Ray Aug 20 '18
Ray

How to break up with your partner?

How to break up with your girlfriend?

·         Don’t break up over the phone or text. You may find it easier than to do it in person but it will create more mess and way more drama while in person both parties can talk it out with far lesser drama. Also, it won’t be disrespectful to your girlfriend because even though you want to end it, you were once in a relationship with her.

·         Don’t blame her solely. Don’t put all the blame on her solely. Try to ease it out as much as possible. Because you know there’s going to be an argument so be prepared. Be honest. Put your heart in front of her just with respect.

·         Just be honest and tell the truth. It is going to hurt, not just her but you too but you got to keep a strong heart. Be prepared for the argument, just don’t be offensive.

·         Basically there’s no right time to do it but before a big thing like a celebrating or holidays is a bad time. You should do it when she’s emotionally calm and not question her life obviously.

How to break up with your boyfriend?

·         Do it in private and in person. Don’t break up over the phone or text it will create more mess than you may want at that time because that’s bad time for you too. Besides you two may need to talk some things out.

·         Don’t be too hard on him. Don’t go out of your way just to prove that he’s the wrong one in the relationship and it’s his entire fault. Try to minimize the heartache for him as well as you. Don’t try to fight over whose fault is this. Because fighting will make it even harder.

·         Let the time heal the wounds. Even though it’s you wants to end relationship, let me tell you it’s still going to hurt. You will miss your ex. Just feel guilty over your decisions and let the time heal the wounds. Don’t try to catch up with him suddenly after the breakup. You may even want get together again, just be strong because that’s what will get you through this.

·         After the break up you may want to share the pain with someone else and its natural just don’t gossip about it with everyone. Never disclose his private stuff. Don’t spread rumors about your ex. Do not gossip about your person chats and conversations with anyone but your closed ones.

Ray Aug 16 '18
Ray

NI GUTE WAMENYA NIBA UMUKOBWA CYANGWA UMUSORE AGUKUNDA?

ABAKOBWA-

·         Kwitegereza mu maso. Iyo umukobwa agukunda, arakwitegereza cyane birenze ibisanzwe. Ashobora kukureba igihe kirekire ariko yabona nawe umurebye agahita areba ku ruhande. Ibi bishobora kuba ibimenyetso bikwereka ko akwiyumvamo.

·         Umukobwa ukwiyumvamo neza akuguma iruhande umunsi wose. Abakobwa bagerageza kwerekana ibyiyumviro byabo kenshi iyo muri kumwe bagukoraho bagerageza kukwiyegereza cyane. Ariko iyo umukobwa agira isoni, biramugora cyane kukwiyegereza. Ntukabifate nabi ngo uvuge ko atagukunda. Ahubwo wowe ujye ugerageza gukuraho iyo mipaka ituma atakwegera maze urebe uko avuga.

·         Imvugo nziza y’umubiri nayo ni ikimenyetso cyiza. Iyo umukobwa ari gukina n’umusatsi we, aba agerageza kukwiyegereza. Rimwe na rimwe iyo umukobwa akwiyumvamo, ashobora kugaragaza ibimenyetso byo guta umutwe asa nuwahuzaguritse. Guseka neza nabyo bishobora kuba ikimenyetso cyiza kigaragaza ko agukunda.

·         Rebera ku bintu bikwegereye. Reba inshuti ze igihe muri kumwe. Abakobwa basangira ibyiyumviro byabo n’inshuti zabo. Igihe inshuti zabo ziri kwitwara nk’aho bidasanzwe kuri wowe, kiba ari ikimenyetso kigaragaza ko uwo mukobwa akwiyumvamo neza. Izindi mpamvu umuntu yarebaho, arakwihanganisha no guseka cyane. Ashobora kukwihanganisha ari ukugira ngo abone uko akuvugisha ndetse agaseka ikintu cyose uvuze nk’aho ari urwenya.

ABASORE-

·         Imvugo y’umubiri. Nanone, imvugo y’umubiri ishobora kuba urufunguzo rwatuma umenya niba umuntu akurimo. Umusore ashobora kukureba cyanen ndetse agerageza no guhuza amaso nawe. kukwegera ubwe nacyo ni ikimenyetso gikomeye. Ashobora kugusatira cyane igihe cyose abonye amahirwe.

·         Ibikorwa nabyo biravuga cyane kuruta amagambo. Reba ibikorwa bye, urebe niba akwitaho bitandukanye niby’abandi. Iyo umusore akwiyumvamo by’ukuri, agerageza kwitwara gipfura cyane. Rimwe na rimwe agerageza kugufasha kabone niyo waba utabishaka, biba ari ukugira ngo akwereke ko akwitaho.

·         Atangira gukunda ibntu wiyumvamo. Urugero, umunsi umwe, azatangira kureba filimi ukunda, kujya mu birori ukunda cyangwa gusoma ibitabo ukunda nubwo yaba atabikunda cyangwa abyanga cyane. Reba niba ibyo akora byose abikorera kugukurura.

·         Nk’uko abakobwa babikora, abasore nabo bakunda gusangiza  ibyiyumviro byabo inshuti zabo. Reba niba inshuti ze zitwara mu buryo budasanzwe imbere yawe. Urugero bashobora gukora cyangwa bakavuga ibintu bigaragaza ko agukunda, bakamushotora imbere yawe cyangwa bagakora n’ibindi bintu bitandukanye.


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Ray Aug 7 '18
Ray

 

NI GUTE USHOBORA KUMENYA NIBA UMUKUNZI ATARI UWAWE

NI GUTE USHOBORA KUMENYA NIBA UMUKOBWA MUKUNDA ATARI UWAWE?

Inenge ya mbere ushobora kubona mu mubano wawe ni igihe umukunzi wawe atakuzirikana. Ni gute ushobora gutekereza kubana n’umuntu ubuzima bwawe bwose ataguha agaciro nk’umuntu? Bishobora kutagaragara mu ntangiro z’umubano wanyu ariko nyuma bikakugeraho.

·         Niba umukobwa mukundana afite imyitwarire mibi ku bandi bantu kandi akaba atita ku nshuti zawe, umuryango cyangwa n’abandi uwo ntabwo aba ari uwawe. Kuko ntukeneye kubana n’umuntu utita ku bantu ukunda.

·         Ese yaba akunda guhangana nawe kubintu ubona ko bidakwiriye? Nibyiba guhanganira ikintu wenda rimwe iyo ari ngombwa ariko guhangana bihoraho ni ikimenyetso kigaragaza ko ukeneye kureka umubano wawe.

·         Ese umukobwa mukundana ntajya yifuza kuganira n’inshuti cyangwa umuryango wawe – kugira umukobwa usobanukiwe ko kuba ufite ubuzima ni byiza. Niba ashaka ko igihe cyose muhorana nta wundi muntu numwe, icyo gihe umubano wanyu uba uri kugana mu magepfo kandi uba ugenda urangira.

NI GUTE USHOBORA KUMENYA NIBA UMUSORE MUKUNDANA ATARI UWAWE?

·         Ahora ahugijwe urugero n’akazi ke cyangwa inshuti ze kandi biramugora kumara igihe nawe. Uwo aba ari umusore udashobora kubana nawe kuko mu by’ukuri nta gihe agufitiye.

·         kubahana ni ngombwa mu mubano muzima. Abantu bakundana bagomba kubahana. Iyo umusore mukundana atakubaha biba bisobanuye ko ataguha agaciro cyangwa adaha agaciro umwizerere yawe. Biba bikomeye rero kuba muri uwo mubano ndetse biba ari byiza guhita uwuhagarika.

·         Ni byiza gutongana ho gato ariko guhora mutongana igihe cyose ni bibi. Niba urugero umusore mukundana ari ko ateye ahora atongana, ntabwo aba ari uwawe. Kuko igihe cyose uge wibuka ko nawe uri uw’ingenzi mu mubano wanyu nkawe.

·         Iyo umusore mukundana ataguha umwanya – rimwe na rimwe abasore bakunda kurinda abantu bakunda ndetse kenshi biba ari byiza ariko niba ataguha umwaya wawe ugahora ukora ibyo akubwiye gukora byaba ari byiza kubihagarika. Kuko nubwo utekereza ko ushobora kubyihanganira mu ntangiriro ariko uko igihe gishira uzababara bitume wifuza guhagarika uwo mubano. 


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Ray Aug 1 '18
Ray


NI GUTE WANYURA UMUKOBWA CYANGWA UMUSORE?

NI GUTE WANYURA UMUKOBWA?

·         Tuma yumva ko adasanzwe imbere yawe ndetse n’abandi.  Jya umwubaha uko ushoboye. Musange aho ari umufasha utuntu dutandukanye. Ntukamwirengagize ngo utegereze ucyeka ko ari we uzatangira kukwiyumvamo.

·         Ambara imyenda myiza.  Aha biba bisa nibikomeye kubanu bamwe na bamwe ariko iyo ugerageza gukaraba buri munsi nabyo birafasha. Abakobwa bakunda abasore bahumura neza, bambara imyenda isa neza kandi biyitaho neza.

·         Gira ikinyabupfura. Kwitonda bifata abakobwa cyane. Itware nk’imfura. Ujye ukunda “gushimira” no “gushimisha” igihe cyose. Ntabwo bibabaza ahubwo bikugira imfura.

·         Tekereza mbere yuko uvuga. Buri muntu wese akunda kuvuga ubusa kuva na mbere hose ariko jya ugerageza ntubikore igihe uri imbere ye. Nanone, ntukamwirengagize cyangwa ngo uvugishe abandi bakobwa kugira ngo umutere ishyari, uba wikozeho cyane.

·         Gerageza kuba uwo uri we. Iyungure byinshi uko ushoboye. Uburyo wambara, imiterere yawe, imyitwarire yawe, n’ibindi…ikintu cyose gifite icyo gisobanuye jya ugikora.

NI GUTE WANYURA UMUSORE?

·         Mwereke ko umwiyumvamo. Gerageza kujya uhuza amaso na we. Tuma yumva akwifuje ariko bitari cyane. Mwubahe nk’umuntu.

·         Gerageza gushaka ibyo muhuje.  Gerageza gushaka ibyo mwese mukunda, urugero, gutembera, muzika, n’ibindi.. kandi ugerageze kuhubakira umubano ukomeye uko mukora ibyo byose.

·         Koresha imvugo iboneye igihe uri kumuvugisha. Umusore kukwiyumvamo biroroshye, iyo umufungukiye.  Kumuvugisha umusekera, umwenyura byo bikora nk’inzaratsi!

·         Iyumvemo ikizere. Abasore bakunda abakobwa biyumvamo ikizere kandi biyubaha. Abantu biyumvamo ikizere bibongerera imbaraga igihe bibakomereye. Niba mu by’ukuri ushaka kunyura umuntu, nuko ugomba kwishimira uwo muri kumwe muri icyo gihe.

·         Ba uwo uri we. Ntukagerageze kwihindura uwo utari we. Abasore bakunda abakobwa batishushanya. Niba uri umusazi, byerekane ntakibazo. Bizagufasha kunyura abasore ndetse n’abandi muhorana. Ba uwo ugomba kuba we!

USHOBORA NA WE KUBA UFITE ICYO WADUSANGIZA, INYUNGANIZI, USHAKA INAMA Z’URUKUNDO  CYANGWA SE UKENEYE UMUKUNZI. USHOBORA KUTWANDIKIRA KURI  website@truelove-rwanda.com

 

 

Ray Jul 27 '18
Ray

How to move on after breakup?

·         Open up. Let loose your emotions. Don’t pretend to be strong when your whole world is falling apart. If you feel like crying, just cry it, don’t hold back that’s the first step of moving on. Don’t feel ashamed or guilty because it is a natural thing after a breakup.

·         Spend time with your friends. Spend time with the ones you love your friends, your family. Give time to yourself. Have a new hobby. Meet new people. Try to lose all the pain and regret. Do the things you love. And try to move on with your life.

·         Get rid of the personal belongings of your ex. Get rid of anything that reminds you of your ex because it is just going to bring all the pain back. Get rid of all the gifts he gave, give them to charity or else. Don’t stick to your past because that’s gone and never going to come back.

·         Start enjoying your life once again. Have fun with your friends. Do nights out. Do things that your ex never wanted you to, if that makes you feel good. Just go out there and enjoy what life throws at you.

Ray Jul 24 '18
Ray

Ni gute ushobora gukomeza ubuzima nyuma yo gutandukana n’umukunzi?

·         Ifungure, wikuremo ya marangamutima. Ntukigire nk’aho ukomeye igiye ubona isi imeze nk’aho ikurangiriyeho. Niba wumva ushaka kurira, rira, ntugashake kwifata kuko iyo niyo ntabwe ya mbere yo gukomeza ubuzima. Ntukumve ufite ikimwaro cyangwa uburakari kuko ni ibintu bihaho iyo utandukanye n’umukunzi.

·         Fata igihe uri kumwe n’inshuti. Marana igihe n’abantu ukunda, inshuti zawe, umuryango wawe. Iga kwiha igihe ubwawe, witekerezeho. Shaka ibindi ukora bishya, hura n’abantu bahsya utari usanzwe uhura nabo. Gerageza kwikuramo ububabare bwose no kwicuza. Kora ibintu ukunda, kandi ugerageze gukomeza ubuzima bwawe.

·         Gerageza kwikuramo iby’umukunze wawe wa mbere. Ikuremo ikintu cyose gishobora kumukwibutsa kubera ko gishobora kukugarurira ububabare. Iyibagize impano zose yaguhaye, uzitanga mu gufasha abantu cyangwa uzihe undi muntu. Ntukibande ku hashize hawe kuko byarangiye kandi bitazagaruka.

·         Tangira urwoherwe n’ubuzima bwawe nka mbere. Ishimane n’inshuti zawe. Usohoke nijoro, ukore ibintu umukunzi wawe wa mbere atashakaga ko ukora, niba bishobora kukuzanira ibyishimo. Genda unezerwe ibyo ubuzima bukuzanyeho aho kugira ngo uheranwe n’agahinda.


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Ray Jul 24 '18
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